No, I am really a nice guy and get along well with most of the people around me. In fact, many regard me with respect and treat them all with due respect, too.
The only thing I dislike about what I see in China is the word ‘和谐’。 It is everywhere and can be seen all the time, while all I see is the social injustice and unbalanced distribution of wealth.
Personally I do not have objection to what I enjoy back home and my family is not at all affected by what I perceive as the social problems. We have abundance any way.
It is your choice to marry a lesbian, and I should wish you well and happiness in your effort.